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Chaplain

Stewards the chapter's Ritual and leads the Standards Board — the chapter's judicial branch — helping bring SigEp's values into everyday chapter life while ensuring standards are administered fairly, consistently and procedurally.

Key responsibility areas

  • Leads and guides the Standards Board and ensures standards are applied fairly, consistently and confidentially.
  • Stewards the Ritual, planning its education and performance and caring for Ritual equipment.
  • Keeps chapter standards, bylaws and member expectations current and understood.
  • Reinforces positive chapter culture by recognizing brothers who model chapter values and addressing accountability issues.
  • Partners with Member Development and Programming on Ritual, Rites of Passage and member-safety priorities.

Leadership skills to develop

Delegation & Empowerment
Involves other brothers in Standards Board preparation and Ritual coordination.
Integrity & Ethical Leadership
Holds brothers accountable to chapter values and makes fair decisions even when uncomfortable.
Conflict Management
Addresses issues directly and objectively while maintaining a calm presence.

For Mentors

How a mentor supports this role

Your mentor helps you build the judgment, confidence, accountability and leadership skills needed to make those decisions yourself.

Where a mentor helps

  • Coach applying standards fairly, consistently and confidentially.
  • Provide guidance on resolving conflict and handling difficult conversations professionally and respectfully.
  • Help him know when and how to seek appropriate guidance and support from others.
  • Stress connecting Ritual to daily chapter life while maintaining appropriate mentor and officer boundaries.

Mentor coaching focus

Fair & Principled Leadership
Build sound judgment and consistency when applying standards.
Conflict Management & Courage
Develop confidence to address difficult issues and hold members accountable respectfully.
Influence & Relationship Building
Build trust and reinforce chapter values through example.
Confidentiality & Professionalism
Exercise discretion, maintain boundaries and know when to seek guidance.

Ask your mentor

  • “How do I stay objective when the brother in front of me is a friend?”
  • “How do you keep a difficult conversation calm and still direct?”
  • “How do I make standards feel like values rather than punishment?”
  • “When should I escalate rather than handle something myself?”

Development ideas

  • Role-play a Standards Board conversation with your mentor.
  • Write the principles you will apply consistently, before the next case arrives.
  • Plan one initiative that connects Ritual to everyday chapter life.

Built for Brothers by Brothers

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Illinois Epsilon Chapter · Northern Illinois University

Brotherhood Mentorship Program

Questions? NIUSigEpMentoring@gmail.com

09/2026